Tuesday, 16 January 2018

Times of Life

● At age of 40 years, "highly educated" and  "less educated" are the same. (Less educated people may even earn more money) 

● At 50 years, "beauty" and "ugly" are the same. (No matter how pretty you are, at this age, wrinkles, dark spots, etc. can no more be hidden.) 

● At 60 years, "high position" and "low position" are the same. (After retirement, even a peon will avoid looking at his boss)

● At 70 years, "big house" and "small house" are the same. (Joints degeneration, hard to move, only require a little space to sit  .)

● At 80 years, "have money" and "no money" are the same. (Even when you want to spend money, you don't know where to spend) 

● At 90 years, "Sleeping" and "waking up" are the same. (After you wake up, you still don't know what to do) 

Take life easy, there are no mysteries to be solved.  

In the long run, we'll all be the same. 
So forget all tensions of life & enjoy. 

Culled from whatsapp by Ike Onwubuya 

Monday, 8 January 2018

26 LIFE PRINCIPLES




          *A* 
        ✍🏽
      *ACCEPT* 
      Accept others for 
      who they are and 
      for the choices they 
      have made even if 
      you have difficulty 
      understanding their 
      beliefs, motives 
      or actions.

          *B* 
        ✍🏽
      *BREAK AWAY* 
      Break away from 
      everything that 
      stands in the way 
      of what you hope 
      to accomplish 
      with your life.

          *C* 
        ✍🏽
      *CREATE* 
      Create a family 
      of friends whom 
      you can share your 
      hopes, dreams, 
      sorrows, and 
      happiness together.

          *D* 
        ✍🏽
      *DECIDE*
      Decide that you’ll be 
      successful *&* happy 
      come what may, and 
      good things will find 
      you. The roadblocks 
      are only minor
      obstacles along 
      the way.

          *E* 
        ✍🏽
      *EXPLORE*
      Explore & experiment. 
      The world has much 
      to offer, and you 
      have much to give.
      And every time you 
      try something new,
      you’ll learn more 
      about yourself.

          *F* 
        ✍🏽
      *FORGIVE*
      Grudges only weigh 
      you down and inspire 
      unhappiness *&* grief. 
      Soar above it, and 
      remember that 
      everyone makes
      mistakes.

          *G* 
        ✍🏽
      *GROW*
      Leave the childhood 
      monsters behind. They 
      can no longer hurt you 
      or stand in your way.

          *H* 
         ✍🏽
       *HOPE*
      Hope for the best 
      and never forget that 
      anything is possible 
      as long as you remain 
      dedicated to the task.

          *I* 
        ✍🏽
      *IGNORE* 
      Ignore the negative 
      voice inside your head.
      Focus instead on your 
      goals and remember 
      your accomplishments. 
      Your past success is only 
      a small inkling of what 
      the future holds.

          *J*
        ✍🏽
      *JOURNEY*
      Journey to new worlds, 
      new possibilities, is 
      mostly by remaining 
      open-minded. 
      Try to learn something 
      new every day and you 
      will grow in Knowledge.

          *K* 
        ✍🏽
      *KNOW* 
      Know that no matter 
      how bad things seem,
      to be they will always 
      get better.
      The harshest Winter
      always follows the 
      Warmth of Spring.

          *L* 
        ✍🏽
      *LOVE* 
      Let love fill your 
      heart instead of hate.
      When hate is in your 
      heart, there is *NO* room 
      for anything else, 
      but when love is in 
      your heart, there’s 
      room for endless 
      happiness.

         *M* 
        ✍🏽
      *MANAGE* 
      Manage your time and 
      your expenses wisely,
      and you’ll suffer less 
      stress and worry. 
      Then you’ll be able to 
      focus on the important 
      things in life.

         *N* 
        ✍🏽
      *NOTICE*
      Never ignore the poor, 
      infirm, helpless, weak, 
      or suffering people.
      Offer your assistance 
      when possible, and 
      always your kindness 
      and understanding.

         *O* 
        ✍🏽
      *OPEN*
      Open your eyes and 
      take in all the beauty 
      around you. 
      Even during the 
      worst of times, 
      there’s still much 
      to be thankful for.

          *P* 
        ✍🏽
       *PLAY*
      Never forget to have 
      fun along the way.
      Success means nothing 
      without happiness.

         *Q* 
        ✍🏽
      *QUESTION*
      Ask many questions, 
      because you are here 
      to learn & be informed.

          *R* 
        ✍🏽
      *RELAX*
      Refuse to let worry 
      and stress rule your 
      Life, and remember 
      that things always 
      have a way of working 
      out in the end.

          *S* 
        ✍🏽
      *SHARE*
      Share your talent,
      skills, knowledge, 
      and time with others.
      Everything that you 
      invest in others will 
      return to you many 
      times Multiplied.

           *T*  
         ✍🏽
       *TRY*
      Even when your 
      dreams seem 
      impossible to reach, 
      try anyway. You’ll be 
      amazed by what you 
      can accomplish.

          *U* 
        ✍🏽
      *USE*
      Use your gifts to 
      your best ability. 
      Talent that is wasted 
      has no value. Talent 
      that is made into 
      efforts will bring 
      unexpected rewards.

           *V*
         ✍🏽
      *VALUE*
      Value the friends and 
      family members who 
      have supported and 
      encouraged you *&* be 
      there for them as well.

          *W* 
         ✍🏽
      *WORK*
      Work hard every day 
      to be the best person 
      you aspire to be, but 
      never feel guilty if you 
      fall short of your goals. 
      Every *sunrise* offers 
      a second chance.

           *X* 
         ✍🏽
      *X-RAY*
      Look deep inside the 
      hearts of those around 
      you and you will see 
      the goodness and 
      beauty within.

          *Y*
        ✍🏽
      *YIELD*
      Yield to commitment.
      If you stay on track 
      and remain dedicated, 
      you will find success 
      at the end of the road.

           *Z* 
      
✍🏽
      *ZOOM*
      Zoom to a happy 
      place when bad 
      memories or sorrow 
      rears its ugly head.
      Let nothing interfere 
      with your goals. 
      Instead, focus on 
      your abilities, in 
      your dreams, and 
      a brighter tomorrow. 

Send this to the persons you care about.

 From a soul that care.👏🌹❤🌺

*Wishing you a prosperous 2018 by His Grace.

Wednesday, 3 January 2018

12 Things Everybody Should Do In 2018


*Counselor Olajumoke writes...✍🏿*

 *1. Pursue* something. Don't walk in the entire 365 days without having something particular in mind to achieve. Start a building project, buy a car, pay some school fees, start some job. Just do something!

 *2. Walk* with people wiser or stronger than you. In 2018, surround yourself with people who will inspire you, who will make you feel you can do better, who will challenge you on.

 *3. Check* your dressing or appearance. Don't put on 'anything' just because it covers your nakedness. Your appearance tells a lot about you. Iron your dress neatly. Don't wear 'big big' dresses in the name of religion. Wear more decent but fitting dresses. This is the slogan: Simple but Classy.
 
 *4. Check* how you talk. Before you open your mouth, be minded of who you are talking to, where you are talking, when you are talking and also know that your integrity is at stake. In every situation, choose silence over speech unless you don't have any option.

 *5. Visit* your parents quite often. Charley, the old man and woman in the village don't need your money, they merely need your company. They need someone they can see and feel proud that they too could see their child through varsity, shs, technical/vocational school, etc.

 *6. In 2018,* be more prayerful. Massa, u can't live your life thinking things occur merely logically. There's a Supreme Being who makes things happen, pray to him. 

 *7. In 2018,* start thinking or planning towards dating or marriage. You are not growing any younger. Start buying a few stuffs you'll need in marriage. Learn how to talk to men with respect and diginity. Carry yourself well. Men, do same.

 *8. In 2018,* always think Positive while being Realistic. When you see tigers praying to God, don't join them. You can be positive that they won't 'chop' you since they are praying but be realistic too that after the prayers, they'll remain tigers and God will feed them with flesh.

 *9. Buy* something, package it well and take it to your Pastor. When last did you give your Pastor something? In 2018, try and do something 'small' for him. You have no idea what he goes through in his personal life. Let him feel that at least one person in the church cares about him.

 *10. In 2018,* Invest more, save less, spend less. Put your money into investment ventures. Buy T-bills, buy shares, buy fixed deposits, import some goods and sell, be a stock broker, etc. In fact, get more than one stream of income!

 *11. Atta* Mills is gone, Ghana is moving on. Komla Dumor is gone, BBC is still operating, KABA is gone, Multimedia is working. The point is, don't work your life out. You won't take your work with you when you die. You are not as important as you think, calm down. Take time off work, go and do medical check-up, visit your family, visit Aburi gardens or the beach and appreciate nature, etc.

 *12. After* reading, send this message to all your groups and contacts.